newbuzz...I get frustrated with people who say they just want to have their own opinion without being judged. They say this after they have  offended you with their viewpoint which is usually aggressive and mean. Then, when you offer a rebuttal, they cry foul.  They do not want to hear your opinion or why you feel differently.  They do not want to explain their stance. They just want you to hear them and remain silent.

It seems like what these folks really want is to draw attention to themselves.  They are unwilling to articulate any opinions or feelings of their own, so they find a way to oppose your  passions. At the first sign of a discussion, they become self proclaimed victims of your moral judgment. They want you to feel bad so they can feel superior to you. This is passive aggressive manipulation and I do not like it.